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Maplewood Counseling

Online Therapy
Couples, Individuals, Families

Contact Maplewoood Counseling

Maplewood Counseling
New Jersey Therapy Services
Couples and Individuals

Offering Online Therapy
Telehealth Teletherapy Sessions
Counseling from Home or Work

Compassion and Experience

Debra Feinberg LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Work
New Jersey and New York
25 Years of Experience


Maplewood Counseling
Offering Online Therapy
169 Maplewood Ave Suite 4
Maplewood, NJ 07040
Call Now (973) 902-8700


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Maplewood Marriage Counseling NJ Couples Therapy

How to Help Your Children

The following is an excerpt from Eckhart Tolle’s, “A New Earth; Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose”.

If you have young children, give them help, guidance and protection to the best of your ability, but even more important give them space-space to be. They come into this world through you, but they are not “yours.” The belief ‘I know what’s best for you’ may be true when they are very young, but the older they get, the less true it becomes. The more expectation you have about how their life should unfold, the more you are in your mind instead of being present for them. Eventually, they will make mistakes and they will experience some form of suffering as all humans do. In fact, they may be mistakes only from your perspective. What to you what is a mistake may be exactly what your children need to do or experience.

Give them as much help and guidance as you can, but realize that you may also, at times, have to allow them to make mistakes, especially as they begin to reach adulthood. At times, you may also have to allow them to suffer. Suffering may come to them out of the blue or it may come as the consequence of their own mistakes. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if you could spare them from all suffering. No it wouldn’t. They would not evolve as human beings and would remain shallow, identified with the external form of things. Suffering drives you deeper.

 

If you want to read more, A New Earth: Awakening To Your Life’s Purpose Here

Couples Therapy

Maplewood Counseling provides relationship counseling for couples who are struggling with communication problems, an affair, a crisis or other issues. Marriage counseling and couples therapy is provided to help for all types couples with relationship issues.

Anxiety, Depression, Grief

Get help for depression, anxiety, grief, or low self esteem. Therapy can help if you are going through a difficult time such as coping with a divorce or break-up. A good therapist can help you improve the way you feel and work on making positive changes in your life.

Coping With a Life Crisis

Do you need help getting through a painful time in your life? Are you dealing with an affair or infidelity? Trying to survive a lonely, painful time? Is your child struggling? Are you or a loved one coping with a crisis, serious health issues, or helping aging parents?

Call 973-902-8700 Maplewoood Counseling
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