Debra Feinberg, LCSW
Director, Senior Therapist

Debra Feinberg, LCSW

Senior Therapist
Online Therapy / Telehealth Sessions

Specialties: Relationship Issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family Issues, Stress Management, Women’s Issues, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, Grief, LGBTQ+ Support, Parenting Issues, Discernment Counseling, Reducing Emotional Reactivity, Life & Relationship Coaching, Navigating Divorce, and Mindfulness.

My Approach in Action:
Feeling stuck in a relationship can be deeply distressing, especially when divorce feels like the only option. I specialize in Discernment Counseling to help couples find clarity. For example, I worked with a pair who felt they had reached a point of no return. Instead of immediately trying to “fix” things, we paused to explore all three paths: ending the relationship, committing to change, or staying the course. This structured, short-term process lowered the emotional intensity and allowed them to make a thoughtful, confident decision about their future, free from pressure or regret.

A Personal Note From Debra:
In moments of high stress or conflict, our emotions can take over, leaving us feeling reactive and out of control. I am committed to helping you find a sense of calm and centeredness, even when life feels chaotic. Using mindfulness techniques, we can work together to create a space between a trigger and your reaction. This empowers you to respond to challenges with intention and clarity rather than impulse. My goal is to provide a supportive, non-judgmental environment where you can navigate difficult transitions and build a more peaceful, mindful way of living.

Expert Guided Relationship & Family Support

Debra Feinberg, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), is a dedicated relationship and family expert who provides skilled support for the unique challenges blended families face. She focuses on creating a therapeutic environment built on trust and understanding, helping families navigate the emotional landscape of merging households. Debra’s work often centers on addressing parenting challenges and improving co-parenting dynamics to ensure a stable and nurturing environment for children. She empowers families to transform difficulties into opportunities for growth, helping them build a cohesive unit rooted in mutual respect and lasting connection.

• Licensed relationship specialist
• Lifecycle relationship support
• High-conflict couples
• Infidelity recovery
• Co-parenting and blended families
• Parenting challenges
• Multicultural and LGBTQ+ couples

How We Work at Maplewood Counseling

At Maplewood Counseling, we believe that every individual, couple, and family deserves a safe and supportive space to navigate life’s challenges. Our approach is rooted in compassion, collaboration, and evidence-based practices to help you achieve meaningful growth and healing.

Here’s what you can expect when working with us:

• Personalized Care: We take the time to understand your unique needs and goals, tailoring our approach to provide the support that’s right for you.
• Experienced Therapists: Our team of licensed professionals brings years of expertise in individual, couples, and family therapy, ensuring you receive high-quality care.
• Collaborative Approach: Therapy is a partnership. We work together to explore challenges, identify solutions, and empower you to make positive changes.
• Safe and Non-Judgmental Environment: We provide a welcoming space where you can feel heard, understood, and respected.
• Practical Tools and Strategies: Our sessions focus on equipping you with actionable tools to navigate life’s complexities and build resilience.

Whether you’re seeking support for anxiety, relationship challenges, or life transitions, we’re here to help you every step of the way.

More about Debra…

Debra Feinberg, LCSW, is an experienced clinical social worker licensed in New Jersey and New York, with over 25 years of experience helping couples, adults, adolescents, and families navigate relationship challenges, personal struggles, and family concerns. She is the founder and director of Maplewood Counseling, where she provides virtual marriage, couples, and individual therapy, as well as consultations. For those seeking in-person sessions, Debra invites you to explore the services offered by other clinicians at Maplewood Counseling here.

Debra graduated from Binghamton University in 1980 and earned her Master of Social Work degree from Syracuse University in 1996. Her extensive training and eclectic approach to therapy allow her to tailor her methods to meet the unique needs of each client. She draws from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Psychodynamic Therapy, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Mindfulness, and Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Additionally, she incorporates insights from The Gottman Method, Esther Perel’s work, and Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy to help clients build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

Debra also believes in the transformative power of humor and how healing laughter can be. She often uses lightheartedness in her sessions to help clients ease tension, gain perspective, and find moments of relief amidst life’s challenges. For Debra, laughter is not just a way to lighten the burden—it’s a form of medicine that fosters connection, resilience, and emotional healing. She understands that even in the most difficult times, a shared smile or laugh can create space for hope and renewal.

In both her personal and professional life, Debra is deeply influenced by the teachings of Eckhart Tolle, particularly the concept that “Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.” She believes that understanding how negative thoughts contribute to suffering is essential for reducing emotional distress and finding peace, even in the face of life’s inevitable challenges. This philosophy informs her work as she helps clients navigate emotional and physical pain while striving to reduce suffering.

As a certified clinical supervisor and certified school social worker, Debra also dedicates her time to mentoring and supporting other professionals in the field. Her compassionate, integrative approach empowers clients to heal, grow, and create meaningful change in their lives.

Want to set something up with Debra or one of our other professionals below?

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In my free time….

I enjoy spending time in nature and loves seeing raptors and other wildlife. I also love bike riding, a wide range of music, animals, and sending time with family & friends. I frequently read spiritual and other books that help her deepen her understanding of how to help with life’s many challenges.

I am humble, down-to-earth, and easy to connect with.

If you would like to learn more, reach out.

Licenses and Certifications

• New Jersey LCSW License 44CS05255300
• New York LCSW License – R-054039
• New Jersey Certified School Social Worker
• Certified Clinical Supervisor

Experience & Compassion

Our therapists at Maplewood Counseling are open, accepting and professional therapy services to get the help you need. It is very important for us to provide a safe and caring place for people in need of counseling.

• Marriage and Relationship Therapy
• Pre-Marital Counseling
• New Relationships
• Individual Help for Relationship Issues
• Infidelity & Affairs
• Sex & Intimacy Issues
• Parenting, Step-Family, Blended Family
• Gay Couples & LGBTQ Family Therapy
• Multicultural, Cross-Cultural and Interfaith Relationships
• Going with Divorce, Separation & Break-Ups

Learn more about our therapists click HERE.

At Maplewood Counseling, we are dedicated to supporting individuals, couples, and families in achieving mental wellness. Based in Maplewood, NJ, we proudly serve the Essex County, NJ community and offer statewide telehealth services to ensure accessible care for all. Whether you’re seeking help for anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, or personal growth, our experienced team is here to guide you every step of the way.

We Use HIPAA Compliant Telehealth Platform SimplePractice for our Telehealth Sessions