Not sure when to get marriage counseling? Have you tried to work things out on your own? It may be time for marriage counseling if you and your spouse been unable to get to a better place?
Because we work with so many couples, we see situations where one person – it can be a wife or husband – has been pleading with their spouse to get marriage counseling. If you don’t listen or haven’t listened to this plea for help, things may deteriorate significantly.
Ideally, if you’re unable to resolve issues and either one or both of you was feeling sad, angry and disconnected, it might be best to reach out to experienced marriage therapist in your area sooner than later. Waiting too long make cause irreparable damage to your
When to get marriage counseling
Does this sound familiar?
You’re on able to communicate effectively and argue constantly
One or both of you are feeling neglected and are pretty shut down
One or both of you are being disrespectful because you can’t get what you need
You or your wife or husband are feeling very disrespected
One or both of you avoid talking and put up a wall to protect yourself.
You haven’t been able to heal from infidelity or another painful issue
You’re not even sure if you want to stay in the marriage anymore
When to Get Marriage Counseling | How to Know
When you’re stuck. Effective marriage counseling can help you understand and work on changing some of the patterns, triggers and cycles that keep you stuck in a bad place.
If you’d like to sit down with an experienced marriage counselor, get in touch.
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Supportive Counseling for Individuals, Couples, and Families Near You
Life brings changes and challenges that can feel overwhelming. Whether you are navigating difficult transitions, experiencing disconnect in your relationship, or struggling with personal issues, seeking support is a sign of strength. Many people in the Short Hills and Millburn communities look for a local, trusted therapist to guide them through these times.
At Maplewood Counseling, we provide a safe and supportive space just a short drive away. Our experienced and licensed therapists are here to help you, your partner, or your family find a path forward. We offer both in-person sessions at our nearby Maplewood office and convenient virtual therapy to fit your life.
Do You Feel Like It’s Time for a Change?
It can be painful when you’ve tried everything you can think of and still feel stuck. Perhaps you recognize yourself in some of these situations:
You need a couples counselor to help navigate relationship, family, or parenting issues.
You’re going through a divorce or breakup and need support managing grief, anxiety, or depression.
Infidelity, an emotional affair, or online cheating has broken trust in your relationship.
You want your spouse or partner to join you in therapy, but they are hesitant.
You feel disconnected from your partner and fear losing your relationship.
Communication problems and constant conflict are making daily life difficult.
If any of these resonate with you, please know you are not alone. Our dedicated therapists are here to help you transform these challenges into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. We empower you with the tools to resolve conflict, improve communication, and rebuild your bond.
Conveniently Located to Serve the Short Hills Community
Maplewood Counseling is proud to serve our neighbors in Short Hills, Millburn, Springfield, Summit, Union, Livingston, and West Orange. Our office is easily accessible, providing a local option for high-quality mental health support.
Maplewood Counseling 169 Maplewood Ave, Suite 4 Maplewood, NJ 07040
We understand the unique dynamics of our community. Below, you can explore an interactive map highlighting the Short Hills area, including local neighborhoods and schools, to see just how close support really is.
What types of therapy do you offer? We provide counseling for individuals, couples, and families. Our services cover a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, relationship conflicts, infidelity, parenting challenges, grief, and life transitions.
Are your sessions in-person or virtual? We offer both! You can choose to meet with our therapists for in-person sessions at our comfortable Maplewood office or opt for the convenience and flexibility of secure online video therapy (telehealth).
How do I know if therapy is right for me? If you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unable to resolve issues on your own, therapy can provide the professional guidance and non-judgmental support needed to move forward. It’s a dedicated space to work on your personal and relational well-being.
What if my partner is hesitant to try couples counseling? This is a very common concern. Our therapists are skilled at creating a safe environment where both partners feel heard and respected. We often start by addressing these hesitations to ensure the process is comfortable for everyone involved.
How long does therapy take? The duration of therapy is unique to each individual or couple. Some clients find resolution for specific issues in a few months, while others benefit from longer-term support. We will work with you to create a plan that meets your specific goals.
Take the First Step Toward a Brighter Future
You don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. Let our experienced therapists provide the guidance and support you need to build a happier, healthier life and stronger relationships.
Couples Counseling Guide A comprehensive guide to couples counseling, offering insights into how therapy can help improve communication, resolve conflicts, and strengthen relationships.
Marriage Counseling Guide Explore the benefits of marriage counseling, including strategies for rebuilding trust, enhancing intimacy, and navigating life’s challenges together.
Therapy for Interfaith & Interracial Couples in NJ Learn how therapy can support interfaith and interracial couples in navigating cultural differences, fostering understanding, and building a shared vision for the future.
Communication Tips for Culturally Diverse Couples Practical tips and strategies for improving communication in culturally diverse relationships, helping couples bridge gaps and strengthen their connection.
At Maplewood Counseling, we are dedicated to supporting individuals, couples, and families in achieving mental wellness. Based in Maplewood, NJ, we proudly serve the Essex County, NJ community and offer statewide telehealth services to ensure accessible care for all. Whether you’re seeking help for anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, or personal growth, our experienced team is here to guide you every step of the way.