Trauma-Informed Couples Care at Maplewood Counseling
Reviewed by Debra Feinberg LCSW and Robert Jenkins LCSW at Maplewood Counseling
Rebuild Connection and Trust in Your Relationship
Is your relationship feeling strained? When one or both partners have experienced trauma, it can create distance, trigger conflicts, and make it hard to feel safe with the person you love most. You may find yourselves stuck in painful cycles, struggling to communicate and reconnect. We want you to know that there is a path back to each other, and healing is possible.
At Maplewood Counseling, our trauma-informed couples care is designed to help you and your partner navigate these challenges together. We provide a secure, non-judgmental space where you can understand the impact of past experiences and build a stronger, more resilient partnership.
A Holistic Approach to Relationship Healing
We believe that lasting change happens when care addresses the whole picture. Our trauma-informed couples therapy is a key part of our unified, holistic approach, integrating specialized support with a deep commitment to inclusive and comprehensive care.
- Strengthening Your Entire Family System
The health of your partnership often radiates outward, affecting your entire family. Our approach extends beyond just the two of you by connecting to our Integrated Individual & Family Service Mix. By helping you heal as a couple, we also strengthen your family dynamics, creating a more stable and nurturing environment for everyone. We empower you to transform your relationship into a source of strength for your whole family. - Affirming Care for All Couples
Every relationship deserves to be honored and respected. Our practice is proudly LGBTQ+ Affirming, and we are dedicated to providing a safe space for all couples to heal and grow. We understand the unique challenges faced by queer relationships and are committed to offering competent, compassionate care that validates your experience and celebrates your love. - Part of a Broader Commitment to You
Our trauma-informed couples care is not a standalone service but a vital piece of our holistic philosophy. We connect this specialized work with multicultural competence and flexible telehealth access to ensure your support is seamless, accessible, and truly comprehensive. We are here to support your journey toward connection in every way we can.
Reignite Your Bond and Empower Your Partnership
You don’t have to let past wounds define your future together. We are here to guide you with empathy and expertise as you resolve conflict, rebuild trust, and rediscover the joy in your connection.
Take the first step toward a healthier, more connected future.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my partner is hesitant to talk about trauma?
This is a very common and understandable concern. Our therapists are skilled at creating a balanced and supportive environment where both partners feel secure. We never force disclosure and will work with you to build trust at a pace that feels comfortable for everyone. The focus is on strengthening the relationship, not just on the trauma itself.
Will we have to relive painful memories over and over?
No. The goal of trauma-informed care is healing, not re-traumatization. We use gentle techniques like pacing and titration to ensure you are never overwhelmed. This means we only touch on difficult material in small, manageable doses before guiding you back to a feeling of safety and calm. You are always in control of the process.
How is trauma-informed couples care different from regular couples counseling?
While regular couples counseling is effective for many issues, trauma-informed care adds a crucial layer of understanding about how past trauma affects the nervous system, behavior, and relationship dynamics. It specifically incorporates principles of safety, pacing, and titration to help couples navigate the unique challenges that arise when one or both partners have experienced trauma.
How long does trauma-informed therapy take?
The duration of therapy is unique to every couple. Because we honor your individual pace, there is no set timeline. Our focus is on sustainable healing and building a resilient foundation for your relationship, however long that takes. We will regularly check in with you to ensure the process feels right and is meeting your needs.
Begin Your Journey to Healing Together
Navigating the effects of trauma within a relationship can be one of the most difficult challenges a couple can face, but you do not have to do it alone. Maplewood Counseling offers a compassionate, trauma-informed approach that honors your experiences and empowers your partnership. Our methods, centered on safety, pacing, and titration, are designed to create a secure path toward healing and connection.
If you are ready to build a stronger, more resilient future together, we invite you to take the next step. Contact us today to learn more about our in-person and virtual couples counseling sessions and to schedule a consultation.
Helpful Resources
Trauma-Informed Therapy & Counseling Services NJ
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This page provides information about trauma-informed care for individuals, couples, and families.
LGBTQ+ Affirming & Gay Relationship Counseling in NJ
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Highlights LGBTQ+ affirming services, including trauma-informed care for individuals and couples.