Infidelity & Trust Repair Counseling in Maplewood, NJ
Reviewed by Debra Feinberg LCSW
At Maplewood Counseling, we provide inclusive care for people of all races, cultures, and backgrounds, including interfaith, interracial, BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, and blended families. Our therapists bring lived experiences and specialized training to create a safe, affirming space for all.

Rebuilding trust after infidelity or emotional betrayal is one of the most challenging journeys a couple can face. At Maplewood Counseling, we specialize in providing evidence-based, structured support to help couples navigate the complex emotions and dynamics that arise after trust has been broken. Whether you’re dealing with infidelity, emotional affairs, or patterns of defensiveness and criticism, our experienced therapists are here to guide you toward healing and connection.
A Phased Approach to Trust Repair
We understand that every couple’s situation is unique, which is why we use a phased, evidence-based approach to help you rebuild trust and repair your relationship. Our protocols include:
1. Immediate Stabilization
- Addressing the emotional fallout and creating a safe space for both partners.
- Establishing clear boundaries to prevent further harm.
- Providing tools to manage overwhelming emotions and de-escalate conflict.
2. Disclosure Frameworks
- Facilitating honest, structured conversations about what happened.
- Ensuring transparency while minimizing further emotional damage.
3. Boundaries and Transparency Plans
- Helping couples set clear expectations for rebuilding trust.
- Creating actionable plans for accountability and openness.
4. Relapse Prevention
- Identifying triggers and vulnerabilities to prevent future breaches of trust.
- Strengthening communication and emotional connection to foster long-term resilience.
Evidence-Based Tools for Healing
Our therapists are trained in leading relationship counseling methods, such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which are proven to help couples repair and rebuild their relationships. These tools focus on:
- De-escalating conflict: Breaking the cycle of defensiveness, criticism, and pursue-withdraw patterns.
- Rebuilding emotional safety: Helping partners reconnect and feel secure in the relationship.
- Creating a shared vision: Guiding couples to rebuild their relationship on a foundation of trust, respect, and mutual understanding.
For couples who are unsure about staying together, we also offer Discernment Counseling, a structured, short-term process designed to help ambivalent partners gain clarity and confidence about the future of their relationship.
Fast-Track Support for High-Conflict Cases
We know that high-conflict situations require immediate attention. That’s why we offer a fast-track intake process for couples in crisis. Our goal is to provide you with the support you need as quickly as possible, so you can begin the healing process without delay.
Why Choose Maplewood Counseling?
- Expertise in Complex Couple Distress: Our therapists have extensive experience working with couples facing infidelity, emotional affairs, and other trust-related challenges.
- Outcome-Focused Approach: We measure success by your progress toward emotional safety, trust, and connection.
- Compassionate, Non-Judgmental Care: We provide a safe, supportive environment where both partners can feel heard and understood.
Take the First Step Toward Healing
Rebuilding trust is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone. Contact Maplewood Counseling today to schedule an appointment or learn more about our Infidelity & Trust Repair services. Let us help you find a path forward—together.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Can trust really be rebuilt after infidelity?
Yes, trust can be rebuilt with the right support and commitment from both partners. Our evidence-based approach focuses on creating emotional safety, transparency, and accountability to help couples heal and reconnect.
2. What happens during infidelity counseling?
Infidelity counseling involves a phased process, starting with immediate stabilization and emotional support. We then guide couples through structured disclosure, boundary-setting, and relapse prevention to rebuild trust and connection.
3. How long does it take to repair a relationship after infidelity?
The timeline varies for each couple, depending on the severity of the betrayal and the willingness of both partners to engage in the process. Many couples see significant progress within a few months of consistent counseling.
4. What is discernment counseling, and how is it different?
Discernment counseling is a short-term process designed for couples who are ambivalent about staying together. It helps partners gain clarity and confidence about the future of their relationship, whether that means working toward repair or separating amicably.
5. Are your therapists trained in evidence-based methods?
Yes, our therapists are trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and The Gottman Method, both of which are proven to help couples repair relationships and rebuild trust.
Take the First Step Toward Healing
Rebuilding trust is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone. Contact Maplewood Counseling today to schedule an appointment or learn more about our Infidelity & Trust Repair services. Let us help you find a path forward—together.
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