Emergency Counseling to Figure Out the Next Step

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Therapy for Couples in Crisis

Need Emergency Counseling? Is My Marriage Over?

Is my marrige over? Can emergency counseling help?

Are you wondering if your marriage can survive? Did you just find out about an affair? Have you been unhappy and disconnected for years? Have you been trying to get through to your spouse or partner and feel like you’ve given up and feel it’s hopeless you’ll even get him or her to listen and actually understand you?

Many couples call looking for help as they think about some difficult decisions. Can we stay married? Should we get divorced? I don’t think I can ever feel more for my spouse again because there has been too much disconnect for too long.

Are we headed for divorce?

Taking a good look at the relationship will help you make some important decisions about the next step. Divorce is not an easy path, but is it the best option at this point?

A very serious look at the realtionship, the problems, the awareness or lack of, the ability to understand. Can you undertsand and admit your own part in the problems, are you willing to work on things, can you be realistic and open to the process. Fixing things, especially long standing problems, is not going to happen quickly. While one person might wish to put out the fire and get back to the way things used to be, the other might need some permanent changes. One person might want to hang onto things the way they were and the other is so done with feeling a alone, unhappy and disconnected.

Emergency counseling can help you figure things out. What steps you have to take if you both want it to work. Get in touch and let us know what you are going through.

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Couples Therapist for a Disconnected Relationship

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Need a Couples Therapist? | Are You a Couple in Need of Help?

An experienced couples therapist can help many couples struggling with communication, infidelity, intimacy and other issues. Have your been unhappy for long time trying to fix things on your own. Many couples are not sure how to get more connected and resolve relationship problems.

Does this sound familiar?

You’re not sure if you want to stay in your marriage or relationship
You’ve been so unhappy for so long and you’ve built up a wall
You are both unable to connect in ways that feel good anymore
You never have sex and are not sure what to do about it at this point
You definitely feel alone and sad
You do not feel like you are a priority (or way down the list)
You are feeling like the marriage or relationship does not matter

Are you looking for NJ couples therapist to help you and partner? Are you and your wife or husband unhappy in your relationship and not sure if you want to stay? Wondering if any professional help can turn things around?

Please feel free to contact us and let us know how we can help.

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Help After Marital Infidelity

Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Relationships

Need Help with Marital Infidelity?

Help With Betrayal & Trust

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Coping with Relationship and Marital infidelity

Are you a couple dealing with marital infidelity? Are you feeling desperate to get help after an affair? Do you realize you made a huge mistake and don’t know what to do?

Many people involved in an affair feel trapped in lies, covering up for selfish reasons and for fear losing their relationship. Even though it is initially painful and devastating once an affair comes out, most couples can work through these issues if both are open and willing to the healing process. It does take time.

After Marital infidelity

It’s never an excuse, but most affairs are usually a symptom of a problem in a relationship – a lack of connection or not communicating what you need and feel. This is not an excuse, but feeling disappointed, neglected, angry or alone can make up a couple very vulnerable in this way. Sometimes it is other issues and many times we hear “I don’t know why I did it” and for many people, this is true.

Honesty is certainly the best policy when it comes to many things in life and marital infidelity is no exception. Most people fear coming clean and will lie and hide things even when their spouse or partner senses something is wrong. Some people actually will say “you’re crazy” or “you’re paranoid” or “you are ridiculous”, when questioned and accused. Lying can do a number on both people – and the betrayal is very damaging to the relationship.

So it is harmful for you to lie and harmful to your relationship to not be honest and tell your spouse about the marital infidelity. It’s understandable because you certainly don’t want to risk losing the marriage or relationship over it, but the damage done by the lying makes things much more painful and harder to work through when the truth is revealed.

Finally, admitting the affair – how did your partner find out?

Sometimes people feel so guilty and want to be honest they tell their partner about the affair. Other times, the affair is discovered by seeing something on your cell phone bill, credit card charges or just tracking device or even private investigators. Even worse, the person you are or had an affair with has threatened to email or call your wife or husband and tell them – and followed through on that threat.

When you find out from the person who your spouse or partner has been having an affair with, You literally feel shocked, numb, devastated, in a rage – any number of things. As a result, your marriage or relationship is truly in crisis for a period of time and you’re not sure what to do. Also, relationship and marital infidelity causes such extreme pain when it is discovered. Maybe your wife or husband might even demand you take a polygraph or lie-detector test since they have lost all trust in anything you say and cannot trust even themselves.

Most couples turn to a trained and experienced therapist the help them get through the shock, anger, sadness, need for space – a range of intense emotions. They need help with the next steps.

If you need counseling for relationship and marital infidelity, feel free to get in touch.

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Short Hills Counseling in NJ for Couples, Individuals, & Families

Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Relationships

Expert Therapy and Counseling for Short Hills & Millburn Residents

Reviewed by Debra Feinberg LCSW at Maplewood Counseling

Supportive Counseling for Individuals, Couples, and Families Near You

Life brings changes and challenges that can feel overwhelming. Whether you are navigating difficult transitions, experiencing disconnect in your relationship, or struggling with personal issues, seeking support is a sign of strength. Many people in the Short Hills and Millburn communities look for a local, trusted therapist to guide them through these times.

At Maplewood Counseling, we provide a safe and supportive space just a short drive away. Our experienced and licensed therapists are here to help you, your partner, or your family find a path forward. We offer both in-person sessions at our nearby Maplewood office and convenient virtual therapy to fit your life.

Do You Feel Like It’s Time for a Change?

It can be painful when you’ve tried everything you can think of and still feel stuck. Perhaps you recognize yourself in some of these situations:

You need a couples counselor to help navigate relationship, family, or parenting issues.

You’re going through a divorce or breakup and need support managing grief, anxiety, or depression.

Infidelity, an emotional affair, or online cheating has broken trust in your relationship.

You want your spouse or partner to join you in therapy, but they are hesitant.

You feel disconnected from your partner and fear losing your relationship.

Communication problems and constant conflict are making daily life difficult.

If any of these resonate with you, please know you are not alone. Our dedicated therapists are here to help you transform these challenges into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. We empower you with the tools to resolve conflict, improve communication, and rebuild your bond.

Conveniently Located to Serve the Short Hills Community

Maplewood Counseling is proud to serve our neighbors in Short Hills, Millburn, Springfield, Summit, Union, Livingston, and West Orange. Our office is easily accessible, providing a local option for high-quality mental health support.

Maplewood Counseling
169 Maplewood Ave, Suite 4
Maplewood, NJ 07040

Call Now: (973) 902-8700

We understand the unique dynamics of our community. Below, you can explore an interactive map highlighting the Short Hills area, including local neighborhoods and schools, to see just how close support really is.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What types of therapy do you offer?
We provide counseling for individuals, couples, and families. Our services cover a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, relationship conflicts, infidelity, parenting challenges, grief, and life transitions.

Are your sessions in-person or virtual?
We offer both! You can choose to meet with our therapists for in-person sessions at our comfortable Maplewood office or opt for the convenience and flexibility of secure online video therapy (telehealth).

How do I know if therapy is right for me?
If you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unable to resolve issues on your own, therapy can provide the professional guidance and non-judgmental support needed to move forward. It’s a dedicated space to work on your personal and relational well-being.

What if my partner is hesitant to try couples counseling?
This is a very common concern. Our therapists are skilled at creating a safe environment where both partners feel heard and respected. We often start by addressing these hesitations to ensure the process is comfortable for everyone involved.

How long does therapy take?
The duration of therapy is unique to each individual or couple. Some clients find resolution for specific issues in a few months, while others benefit from longer-term support. We will work with you to create a plan that meets your specific goals.

Take the First Step Toward a Brighter Future

You don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. Let our experienced therapists provide the guidance and support you need to build a happier, healthier life and stronger relationships.

Book Your Session Today!

See the Helpful Resources for Couples

Couples Counseling Guide
A comprehensive guide to couples counseling, offering insights into how therapy can help improve communication, resolve conflicts, and strengthen relationships.

Marriage Counseling Guide
Explore the benefits of marriage counseling, including strategies for rebuilding trust, enhancing intimacy, and navigating life’s challenges together.

Therapy for Interfaith & Interracial Couples in NJ
Learn how therapy can support interfaith and interracial couples in navigating cultural differences, fostering understanding, and building a shared vision for the future.

Communication Tips for Culturally Diverse Couples
Practical tips and strategies for improving communication in culturally diverse relationships, helping couples bridge gaps and strengthen their connection.

Shared Vision for Interfaith & Interracial Families
Discover how therapy can help interfaith and interracial families create a shared vision, navigate challenges, and foster harmony.

At Maplewood Counseling, we are dedicated to supporting individuals, couples, and families in achieving mental wellness. Based in Maplewood, NJ, we proudly serve the Essex County, NJ community and offer statewide telehealth services to ensure accessible care for all. Whether you’re seeking help for anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, or personal growth, our experienced team is here to guide you every step of the way.

📍 Location: 169 Maplewood Ave Suite 4 Maplewood NJ 07040
📞 Phone: 973-902-8700
🌐 Website: Maplewood Counseling

We Use HIPAA Compliant Telehealth Platform SimplePractice for our Telehealth Sessions

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Need a Couple Therapist to Help You?

Feeling disconnected? A good marriage or couples therapist can help you figure out what to do if you stuck a painful situation. Whether you’re partnered for a short time or married over 20 years, an experienced therapist can help you if you are both open to it.

How can a good therapist help? By help you do learn to do a better job of listening, understanding and responding (rather than reacting) to your partner. When you realize you can’t do things on your own and have to change your approach, seeking help from the right couples therapist is important. If you’re open to it, counselling can help you learn to listen and understand in ways that you haven’t been able to achieve on your own.

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Does this sound familiar? You are

feeling alone and scared of losing your marriage or a relationship?

terrified your wife or husband because your spouse has emotionally checked out and is now asking for a divorce.

stuck in a bad place in your marriage or relationship.

feeling disconnected.

coping with online cheating, infidelity or an emotional affair.

upset because you asked your spouse or partner for counseling and he/she ignored your requests.

the one who has ignored your spouse or partner’s pleas for help from the couples therapist because you thought things were fine and now you realize ( and are feeling really scared) because they are not.

feeling like there’s only a sliver of hope left your marriage or relationship will survive.

When to Get Help

If you have come to accept that you cannot change certain things on your own, an experienced couples therapist can help. Are you willing to get help and to see what can be done before calling it quits? If you are in a bad place in your relationship, counseling can help you figure what to do.

The distance and disconnect a couple experiences – feeling alone and hopeless, is very painful. Can you reconnect and get to a better place?

If it is possible to reconnect, you can learn what will really help you bring down walls, listen, understand and give your partner what they really need (not assuming what you think they need). This applies with serious issues like infidelity and difficult arguments and communication problems. It does depend on each person and their willingness and ability to work through and heal that painful disconnect.

If you are in need of counseling, a good marriage or couples therapist can help you sort through and figure out your next step. If you’re looking for a couples therapist in New Jersey, get in touch.

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Listen to Your Spouse or Partner When They Say We Need Counseling

As a couples therapist, I hear from so many couples that come in that one person, wife, husband or partner, has been asking to go to counseling for sometimes years. That person was feeling pain, sadness, alone, anger and could not seem to get what he or she needed without help. The difficult part from the perspective oe f couples or marriage counselor is when they finally decide to come it, it is usually when the other partner feels fear or pain. Afraid of losing their marriage or relationship.

Is this you?

you contact a marital therapist because you’re feeling scared your spouse is ready to leave

you have tried over and over to say we need couples counseling and your spouse ignored your requests

when your wife or husband asked for counseling, you thought it wasn’t necessary and now you know it is

your partner is feeling hopeless and saying they want a divorce or to break-up

you or your spouse has actually left physically (separated, moved out) or checked out emotionally

you wish you had listened and found a therapist long ago and did not wait

you are angry at your partner for not taking you seriously and now THEY want to go to couples therapy

So many couples come in and one person says they have been asking to go to counseling for a long time. That same person might have been neglected and feeling they will never get through to their spouse or partner what they need. They just don’t care or will never understand (without help). Some people just give up.

If you’re at that point, see what the next step is with couples or marriage counseling. Get in touch and let us know how we can help.

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