Maplewood Counseling
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169 Maplewood Ave Suite 4
Maplewood, NJ 07040
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Do you want to know how to help aging parents?
Many adult children and baby boomers are struggling with how to help their aging parents. They are dealing with very sensitive decisions over how to get a parent or parents to downsize, move to an assisted living facility or nursing home, as well as other issues. These are very difficult decisions that take an emotional and financial toll on everyone.
Does this sound familiar?
You’re struggling with all the time and money it takes to help your elderly parent(s)
Your parent is not able to make decisions due to health issues, dementia or Alzheimer’s
You are very sad about “forcing” the issue with a parent you love dearly and how hard it is for them to make changes
You parent does not have money to pay for living or health care costs
You have to deal with your siblings when decision making, which is very challenging
Then there are adult children who never had a close or positive relationship with one or both parents,
You have a narcissistic parent and have always had complicated and/or negative feelings about your parent and are stuck with these difficult issues
You are very worried about what will happen to your own finances to support your parent
You are trying to manage raising your children and caring for your parents and it’s stressful and overwhelming
How to Help Aging Parents – Some Helpful Resources
No Easy Task: Getting Aging Parents To Accept Help – “Getting a stubborn aging parent to accept help at home can be a struggle.” Read more
8 Things Not to Say to Your Aging Parents – “I’m going to say something politically incorrect here: Sometimes our elderly parents make us a little nuts.” Read more
About Aging Parents: Something The Government Got Right (For A Change) – “Finally! A great little free booklet to help anyone who has to manage money for an aging parent (or anyone else).” Read more
Living In Denial About Aging Parents: Oh, Rats! – “If there is one thing that is a consistent theme in my almost daily conversations with clients who have aging parents, it is that one or the other is in denial about how aging changes us.” Read more
New Tech Inventions for Aging Parents: Will Seniors Use Them? – “There are some great inventions out there to help keep our aging parents safe and better their lives. When a senior’s cooperation is needed to use them, though, it might not be a sure thing.” Read more
Live in New Jersey and need local resources?
SAGE Eldercare is a unique community resource that offers a comprehensive array of programs and services for older adults and caregivers, promoting independence and quality of life. Learn more
SAGE – SERVICES & ADVOCACY FOR GLBT ELDERS (SAGE) is the country’s largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) older adults. Learn More
We hope you find this information on how to help aging parents helpful.
Maplewood Counseling
Offering Online & In-person Sessions
169 Maplewood Ave Suite 4
Maplewood, NJ 07040
Call Now (973) 793-1000
Feeling Unhappy in Marriage or a Relationship?
We often hear from many individuals who are are struggling and feeling unhappy in their marriage or relationship. Some after a new baby, some during pregnancy and others because of long standing and ongoing communication problems. Some people don’t understand why they are unhappy and say “just for no reason”.
In some situations, one spouse or partner is willing to go to therapy, and the other is not. They refuse to go or it seems they just don’t even care about the relationship enough to make the effort.
So what can you do if you’re unhappy and your partner won’t go the couples therapy? We do hear from many women and men, gay and straight, who can benefit from reaching out to a therapist even if you have to go alone to work on things at home. It’s a good way to take care of yourself and explore what you can and cannot do to get to a better place.
Exploring issues causing you to feel unhappy:
cheating, infidelity, affairs
feeling neglected
feeling your spouse or partner just does care about the relationship
feeling like you don’t matter
feeling unimportant and unappreciated
feeling your spouse or partner is not there for you
dealing with step-family or blended family problems
parenting differences causing problems
struggling with issues related to pregnancy
having trouble adjusting to a new baby
If you’re feeling unhappy in your marriage or relationship, it may help to see how therapy can help you – with or without your partner.
Maplewood Counseling
Offering Online & In-person Sessions
169 Maplewood Ave Suite 4
Maplewood, NJ 07040
Call Now (973) 793-1000
As a parent, it’s hard to keep up managing the needs and activities of your children, managing a household, working in or out of the home and finding any time for yourself.
Many parents feel guilty if they don’t sacrifice their needs and spend more time with their kids. This video explains why it’s not always best to choose spending more time with your kids.
7 Ways Teen Counseling Can Benefit Your Adolescent
Adolescence is a pivotal stage of life marked by growth, transformation, and sometimes, intense challenges. For many teens, navigating these years is complicated by pressures from school, peers, and the expectations of adulthood looming on the horizon. Parents and educators often find themselves wondering how to best support young people during these formative years.
Enter teen counseling. Beyond being a safe space for adolescents to share their thoughts and emotions, counseling provides invaluable tools and coping mechanisms that help teens grow into healthier, more resilient adults.
In this blog, we’ll explore seven ways that teen counseling can make a lasting difference in an adolescent’s life, from improving communication to building self-esteem. Whether you’re a parent looking to help your teen or an educator seeking resources, you’ll find reassurance and practical guidance here.
1. Improved Communication Skills
Good communication is at the heart of understanding and connection, and for teenagers, effective communication can be especially challenging. Hormonal changes, peer influences, and internalized emotions often make it hard for teens to express themselves clearly to others.
Counseling sessions help teens develop vital communication skills, such as active listening, articulating their feelings, and expressing themselves respectfully. For example, Emily, a 14-year-old struggling with family conflicts, found her counseling sessions invaluable as she learned how to translate her feelings into words. Over time, her home environment became more harmonious, largely because she and her family started to communicate better.
When teens learn to express themselves effectively, their relationships with parents, peers, and teachers improve significantly.
2. Enhanced Emotional Regulation
Adolescents experience emotions more intensely than any other age group due to their developing brains and fluctuating hormones. It’s no surprise that mood swings, frustration, or anxiety can become overwhelming.
Teen counseling helps young people understand their emotional patterns and teaches them techniques to regulate those feelings. Counselors introduce tools such as mindfulness exercises, relaxation techniques, and cognitive reframing to manage challenging emotions.
Take Sarah, a 15-year-old who struggled with intense anxiety about school. Through her counseling sessions, she learned how to recognize the early signs of anxiety and employ calming techniques like deep breathing and grounding exercises. Today, Sarah describes feeling more in control of her emotions and less overwhelmed by stress.
3. Better Academic Performance
A teen’s mental state often directly affects their academic performance. Anxiety, self-doubt, or difficulty concentrating can hinder their ability to focus and succeed in school. Counseling addresses these underlying challenges, enabling teens to perform better in academic settings.
For instance, Sarah’s coping strategies for anxiety didn’t just help her feel better about herself; they also improved her grades. With fewer emotional roadblocks, she began approaching assignments with more confidence and experienced greater success in school.
Teen counseling ensures that academic hurdles don’t snowball into long-term setbacks.
4. Healthier Relationships
Building strong and healthy relationships during adolescence lays the foundation for fulfilling adult connections. However, boundaries, trust, and conflict resolution don’t come naturally to everyone.
Counseling provides teens with the tools they need to form and nurture positive relationships. This includes addressing issues like bullying, peer pressure, and romantic complications. Michael, a 16-year-old facing persistent bullying, turned to counseling to develop assertiveness skills. With the support of his counselor, he learned how to set boundaries and choose friendships more thoughtfully.
For Michael, counseling not only strengthened his relationships but also boosted his confidence in social settings.
5. Increased Self-Esteem
Low self-esteem can hold teenagers back from achieving their potential. Teens may feel like they’re not enough—not smart enough, attractive enough, or capable enough. It’s tough to watch someone you love wrestle with a distorted self-image.
Therapy for teens works to challenge these limiting beliefs. Counselors provide impartial yet affirming support, encouraging teens to replace negative self-talk with a healthier mindset. They help teens recognize their strengths, celebrate their achievements, and foster a sense of self-worth.
Through counseling, Michael grew to see himself not as a victim of bullying, but as a resilient and capable individual. This sense of empowerment allowed him to approach life with renewed confidence.
6. Coping with Mental Health Challenges
For teens facing mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, or PTSD, counseling can truly be life-changing. Left unaddressed, these struggles often worsen over time, impacting every aspect of a teen’s life.
Licensed counselors are trained to identify and treat mental health issues, providing teens with the tools they need to cope and recover. Techniques like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and solution-focused therapy help teens reshape negative thought patterns or behaviors.
Sarah’s case illustrates this perfectly. Her weekly counseling sessions gave her practical ways to work through overwhelming thoughts, ultimately improving her mental and emotional well-being.
7. Development of Problem-Solving Skills
Life is full of challenges, and adolescence is no exception. From managing school deadlines to resolving peer conflicts, teens often feel unprepared to tackle obstacles that arise.
Counseling equips teens with critical problem-solving skills by teaching them how to weigh options, anticipate consequences, and make informed decisions. By practicing these skills in a supportive counseling environment, teens build the confidence to face challenges head-on.
For Emily, who often struggled with family arguments, these newfound skills empowered her to help find solutions instead of perpetuating conflicts. Over time, she became a more active and thoughtful participant in her own life.
Transforming the Teen Years Through Counseling
The teenage years may be challenging, both for adolescents and the adults who care for them. But with the right support, teens can grow into empowered, emotionally intelligent, and resilient individuals. Teen counseling offers a pathway for young people to develop essential life skills, improve their mental health, and build stronger relationships.
If you’re considering counseling for your child or a teen you care about, take the first step today. The benefits are truly life-changing—for both teens and their support network.
Need help finding the right counselor? Contact us to connect with compassionate, experienced professionals who can guide your teen every step of the way.