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Understanding Shame | How It Impacts Your Life

Shame Can Be Debilitating

Healing Shameful Feelings
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This video explains how shame is lethal and what you need to do to reduce shame.

According to Brene Brown,shame is defined as the intensely painful feeling that we are unworthy of love and belonging. She says we all have it and it is one of the most human primitive emotions. She also says the less we talk about it, the more we have it

Shame needs these 3 things to grow exponentially:

1) Secrecy
2) Silence
3) Judgement

To get rid of shame – EMPATHY. Shame cannot survive empathy. So talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love about something that triggers your shame or reach out to someone you trust and tell your story. Empathy is the way to reduce and get rid of same.

DR. BRENE BROWN: “SHAME IS LETHAL”

Couples Therapy

Maplewood Counseling provides relationship counseling for couples who are struggling with communication problems, an affair, a crisis or other issues. Marriage counseling and couples therapy is provided to help for all types couples with relationship issues.

Anxiety, Depression, Grief

Get help for depression, anxiety, grief, or low self esteem. Therapy can help if you are going through a difficult time such as coping with a divorce or break-up. A good therapist can help you improve the way you feel and work on making positive changes in your life.

Coping With a Life Crisis

Do you need help getting through a painful time in your life? Are you dealing with an affair or infidelity? Trying to survive a lonely, painful time? Is your child struggling? Are you or a loved one coping with a crisis, serious health issues, or helping aging parents?

Call 973-902-8700 Maplewoood Counseling

Marriage Counseling Chatham NJ

Marriage Counseling Chatham NJ

Morris County Online Therapy
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Marriage Counseling Chatham NJ

At Maplewood Counseling, we see many couples and individuals who work or live in Chatham, New Jersey in Morris County. Some are looking for marriage counselors and want to see a therapist located nearby, but not necessarily in Chatham. Do you live or work in Chatham Borough or Chatham Township and need to find local therapy services to help you or your family? We offer in-person and video telehealth sessions. 

Is this you?

  • You are struggling in your relationship or marriage and need help with communication
  • Your spouse recently found out about an affair and you want to save your marriage
  • You are stressed, anxious or feeling unhappy and want some professional help
  • You are both unhappy and distant and don’t want things to continue on this way
  • You’re considering divorce after a long term marriage and want to know what to do
  • You’re struggling with parenting, co-parenting, step family or blended family problems
  • You’ve been through a loss and need help dealing with grief
  • Issues with you teenager or adult children cause tremendous stress on the marriage
  • You’re dealing with serious medical issues and it is affecting the entire family

We provide therapy services for couples and individuals who work or live in Chatham. Some are looking for marriage counseling, some help trying to get through a difficult time. If you need therapy services, please contact us and let us know how we can help .

 

What is Empathy? Feeling with People

What is Empathy? Feeling with People

What is Empathy & How it Connects Us

Empathy Builds More Meaningful Realtionships
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What Is Empathy?

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person. It goes beyond simply recognizing someone’s emotions—it means truly stepping into their shoes, feeling what they feel, and acknowledging their experience without judgment. Empathy deepens our understanding of those around us and strengthens our personal connections.

Whether you’re navigating a relationship, helping a friend through a tough time, or simply striving to be more compassionate, empathy serves as a powerful tool for creating meaningful bonds.

How Empathy Connects Us

At its core, empathy bridges the gap between people. When you genuinely try to see the world through someone else’s eyes, it fosters a deep sense of connection. It shows others that they’re not alone, helping to build trust and understanding in your relationships. Couples can use empathy to enhance their emotional bond, parents can connect on a deeper level with their children, and individuals can empathize with friends, colleagues, and loved ones to improve their communication and relationships.

Building Meaningful Connections

Empathy transforms ordinary relationships into meaningful ones. When you take the time to validate someone’s emotions, you’re telling them that their feelings matter. This small but powerful act can strengthen relationships with your partner, your children, or those closest to you.

For couples, empathy can pave the way for healthier communication. Rather than reacting defensively, understanding a partner’s perspective can diffuse conflict and create opportunities for growth. For parents, practicing empathy can foster trust and open up dialogue with their children, enabling better problem-solving and emotional support.

Helping Others Through Challenges

Empathy plays a crucial role in guiding others through difficult times. Imagine a friend or partner navigating grief, frustration, or worry. By offering empathy—whether through listening or simply sitting with them—you contribute a sense of support and care. Just acknowledging someone’s emotions can alleviate loneliness and provide the strength they need to move forward.

For parents, empathy can be a guiding light when helping children learn to manage big emotions or challenging situations. For individuals, it equips you with the emotional intelligence to support loved ones when they need it most.

Why Empathy Matters

Empathy helps people feel seen and understood, creating stronger relationships and a sense of belonging. It encourages kindness, builds trust, and makes it easier for us to work through life’s ups and downs together. By practicing empathy, we not only improve our relationships but also make the world around us a little kinder.

Take a moment to listen, ask open-ended questions, and try to see things from another’s perspective. Whether you’re a partner, parent, or friend, practicing empathy can open doors to deeper, more fulfilling connections.

If you need help becoming more empathetic in your relationships, get in touch. 

 

Counseling Essex County | Find a Therapist in NJ

Therapist in Essex County NJ

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Counseling Essex County| Find a Therapist in NJ

Are you looking for help with grief, anxiety, depression or family therapy? Do you live in Essex County, New Jersey?

Does this sound familiar?

  • You or a family member is struggling with illness or serious health issues
  • You are the caretaker for an elderly or sick family member
  • You need help coping with the death of a spouse or loved one
  • You feel isolated and alone
  • You are feeling very depressed and need help coping
  • Your doctor recommended therapy to help with difficult issues
  • Your elderly parent or spouse has dementia or Alzheimer’s and you need counseling support

If you need help with personal or family issues counseling may help. If you need a therapist in Essex County, NJ, contact us now. We are here to help

Need Divorce Counseling in NJ?

Need Divorce Counseling?
Help with a Break Up

Maplewood Marriage Counseling NJ Online Therapy


Telehealth Online Therapy

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Looking for Divorce Counseling?

A divorce for most men and women is devastating and extremely painful. Even if things have been bad for a long time, giving up and throwing in the towel is very difficult. You’re bound to feel sadness and grief about ending a relationship or marriage.

Some cope with the loss with sadness and grief, while others feel intense anger, bitterness and resentment.  Either way it causes tremendous suffering, but trying to find a better way to cope with the feelings can make a huge difference on your mental and physical health.

No doubt feeling of anger, resentment and bitterness will prolong the suffering and make things worse. Usually what’s under the anger is grief and sadness, but it’s hard to get to. Hanging onto the anger and allowing your thoughts to fuel that fire is very harmful to yourself, your children and your ex.  Most people don’t care about the harm they do to the ex. Actually, they want bad things to happen to their ex. Some want him or her to die or wish awful things such as illness or accident.

Does this sound familiar?

  • I can’t seem to cope with the anger in more constructive ways, but I want to
  • I feel so resentful – like he or she did this to me and want to know how to handle those emotions
  • I am stuck and feeling bitter and can tell I am making things worse for myself
  • I don’t want to continue to bash my ex and involve my kids, but it’s a go to place
  • I do want peace

We all want peace. It is sad and hard on you and your spirit to wish these things, although it is understandable you don’t know how to handle the intense amount of suffering and loss you feel. I’ve seen many couple go through a bitter, nasty divorce only to find peace over the years. Wouldn’t it be great if you could find a way to get there faster? To deal with you feelings in ways that help you let go of self defeating and destructive thoughts and actions? That’s where divorce counseling can help.

Divorce Counseling to Help You Find Peace

The type of therapy we provide is one-to-one help. Helping men and women find a way through the pain to accept and find peace. We can help you explore feelings of depression, anxiety, grief, anger  and how your thoughts can make things worse.  We can help you process your grief,  make sense of things and move in a more positive direction.

Need a therapist to help?  Contact us if you live or work in Northern NJ in Essex County.