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Getting Through Hard Times

Anxiety, Depression, Gay Issues, Grief, Relationships

Going Through Hard Times

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Going through hard times?

Does this sound familiar?

You’re experiencing deep sadness over the way your life is going
You’re feeling very sad and alone
You’re trying to find strength and hope
You’re feeling lost and want help getting out of a dark time in your life

All you have to do is turn on the news to hear about all the tragic events going on out there in the world and sometimes tragedy hits close to home. Death of a loved one, serious and life threatening health issues, financial hardship or loss dealing with a painful and life altering divorce.

Life certainly has a way of challenging us all in so many ways and no one should have to go through it alone.

Is this you?

You recently lost a loved one to illness or sudden death
You’re life has been turned upside down by divorce
You’re teenager or young adult child is struggling
You’re adult child is having a difficult time in their life
You’re (or a loved one) are coping with cancer or serious illness
You’re struggling with aging, depression, isolation and health issues

Whatever the challenge, so many of us end up needing help getting through hard times. The support of family and friends (and for some faith and spirituality) can help in so many ways, but for some people, getting through hard times is much more difficult. You don’t have to go through it alone.

If you need help getting through hard times, therapy and support groups can help. If you live in Essex County NJ, feel free to contact us at 973-793-1000 and let us know how we can help.

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Making Divorce Easier

Grief, Relationships

Making Divorce Easier

Avoiding a Nasty, Bitter Split
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Making Divorce Easier

Many therapists see a lot of angry, sad and depressed men and women going through a divorce. And what we know is a bitter, nasty divorce hurts everyone.  There are no “winners”.

Does this sound familiar?

  • You can’t stand the fact that your ex is going to get so much of your hard earned money.
  • You feel like she or he is trying to destroy you financially.
  • You are so angry and don’t know how to control the rage.
  • You’re on the receiving end of a soon to be ex who has done things that are shocking and extremely upsetting.
  • You’re struggling with how this nastiness and hostility is affecting your child or children.
  • You think your soon to be ex views you as trying to destroy them – and you’re not.

Making divorce easier  – please help make that happen

It takes both to make it happen.  If you are not in a place you can forgive your ex and it is causing you to act in nasty ways, try reaching out to a therapist or other mental health professional.  Get some help processing and making sense of your rage and anger. Fighting is so costly financially and emotionally. When you hurt the parent and making it harder on him or her, you inevitably hurt the child. For the sake of your family, your own mental, physical and financial health.

See what it takes to achieve making divorce easier.   If you have children, you will be in each other’s lives forever. I have seen many people go through bitter, nasty divorces only to years later feel more peace after they’ve had time. I hope you can get to that peaceful place much sooner.  Reach out for help – it may mean turning things around much sooner than 5 or 10 yrs down the road.

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Are You Feeling Overwhelmed?

Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Relationships

Feeling Overwhelmed?

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Feeling overwhelmed and not sure what to do?

Do you wake up in the morning and have trouble facing the day? Do you go to bed at night feeling exhausted and depressed? Is it hard to find the time to get everything done at home and/or work? Feeling like you’re a disappointment to your family or employer? You are not alone.

Feeling Isolated and Alone?

Feeling overwhelmed at work? Does this sound familiar?

  • I feel overworked and unappreciated
  • I have a difficult and demanding boss
  • My coworkers stress me out
  • I have trouble getting along with my boss or coworkers
  • I feel trapped and stuck

Feeling overwhelmed at home? Does this sound familiar?

  • I have no time for myself
  • My job at home is thankless and demanding
  • I can’t keep up with the kids activities and taking care of everything else
  • My spouse or partner is not supportive and does not understand what I go through
  • I have no life other than taking care of others and household responsibilities
  • I feel isolated, alone and depressed

Feeling overwhelmed at school or college? Does this sound familiar?

  • I am so stressed about grades
  • I am feeling anxious and/or depressed
  • I don’t know what to do about how overwhelmed I feel
  • I feel alone
  • I am stressed about a relationship

If you’re struggling and feeling overwhelmed, talking to a professional may help you. If you’re a student, talking to a school counselor or college counseling service may be very helpful. Many people feel talking to a therapist, other mental health professional or joining a support or therapy group is helpful. Feeling more connected, heard, supported and validated can help you process what you are going through.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, take that important step and reach out for help.

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